Changes...

Many at times we don't realise that we're changing.. maybe it's because we're influenced by other people or we just wanna be SOMEBODY... i realised this myself... right from the mindset i had when i was in primary school.. all the way to secondry school and up to now, in a polytechnic, it's a very different kind of life that i'm leading. i wouldn't say that my life have been smooth sailing.. to be honest, i took many wrong steps.. i fell and stood up again and i fell again... to me, every fall is a learning point and you'll get stronger after it.. Back to the point, i realised that over the years, i've changed quite a fair bit.. be it in the physical or psychological point of view.. in anyways, they all result either a good or bad. Now, this leads me to my next point..

I had my Organisational Behaviour tutorial today, we learnt people judge others by how they look or perceive... well, it's true... but sometimes, it's because the way people perceive others that might hurt people's feelings. i've got this friend of mine in school, he's 21 this year and because of the way he presents himself, people perceive him as someone who's not approachable and unfriendly.. well, that's so not true.. i guess it's alot about one's EQ ... like what i told alot of my friends and i personally feel it's true... "we may not be degree holders or Phd holders, but what's important is that we have to be street- smart" Being street- smart is very important in this society.. we just have to accept the fact that this is what the World requires you to be.

I think that we shouldn't be too fast to judge a person for we would also be judged.. if one commits a mistake, give him/ her an opportunity to change.

Lastly, we go through changes all the time.. many at times, changes can lead to positive or negative impacts... what's important is that we have to remember to stand up after a great fall cus that's the only way you'll grow:)

Signing off! ciaos!